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BearPodcast 213 – Mike Ator Interview, California Gay Marriage, FireFox

Hosts: Nard and Ray
Guest: Mike Ator

We had Mike Ator on the show. We talked about his music, influences and performances

The Project Big winner is: Marvin from Ursus @ Large Podcast

Download MP3, Duration – 39:51, Size – 24.3MB
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Links:
Mike Ator
Couples Say “I Do” as Marriage Equality Becomes Legal
Get FireFox 3
Metrobears Boat Cruise
Utah Bear Ruckus

Go below to read Marvin’s Entry for Project Big!

Marvin from Washington
Top

I am the perfect top because I know how to F.U.C.K. And that stands for Flexibility, Understanding, Courtesy and kindness. Let’s face it. If you’re going to ram a guy in the pooper you need to have all these qualities to make the experience the best for both you and your receptive partner.

Flexibility: This applies both physically and mentally. Ass badgering is a dance and it takes two to tango. Not everyone enjoys it field goal style on the edge of the bed so you have to be fairly limber and agile so when you’re pounding his ass you can get the optimal angle and thrust to get him off too. It’s not so text book as just penetration. Also knowing that it’s not 100% dick in anus that gets guys off is key. Not every guy wants you to just hock one on his pucker and go to town. Reading your bottom’s needs and like and not being afraid to ask is key. And more importantly being willing to follow through.

Understanding: This goes hand in hand with flexibility. Most guys have there limits and boundaries and when they come up, you have to be respectful of that. Not everyone wants a Dirty Sanchez or is willing to do ass to mouth. As much as you may like it, it’s not for everyone and as a guest of Buttberg, you should play be the town rules.

Courtesy: This is simple but it adds so much to the experience. I always have a variety of lubes on hand to meet my bottoms tastes. Silicone, water based, warming or even good old fashioned cowboy lube (spit). Fresh towels and wash cloths are always a nice touch for cleaning up later. And when ever my bottom gets turned around on the bed and his head it pinned against the foot board, I reach over and tuck a pillow under his head to prevent bruising. It’s the little touches.

And lastly Kindness: Always thank your partner and offer him a cold beverage. And when you’re done don’t just say You have to be up in the morning and kick him out. There are ways of gently nudging them in that direction with out putting them out the front door with all their clothes bundled in their arms. You just fucked the guy and if you did it right he’s gonna be sitting on one butt cheek for a day or 2. A little kindness will make that soreness worth it so when he’s got beads of cold sweat on his brow as he is trying not to scream while taking a dump he’ll think damn “I got fucked good, I want more.” With out knowing how to F.U.C.K. he just won’t want to come back.

– Marvin

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One Response to “BearPodcast 213 – Mike Ator Interview, California Gay Marriage, FireFox”

  1. June 25th, 2008 at 4:06 am

    MrPandaBehr says:

    Great interview with Mike Ator. He’s a very cute bear.